Total War: Shogun 2 is a real time strategy game set in 16th century feudal Japan.
Pro Both players (in multiplayer) take part in every fight
If one of the players decides to fight in real-time (instead of auto-resolving a battle), the other joins the fight as well. The owner of the army can decide which units the other player might control. (This can be changed any time during the battle.)
This system brings a lot of fun and strategy into the game.